- Friends who are conducting affairs
and encourage you to do the same. They will introduce female
friends (usually friends of their own girlfriends) to you. They will
guide you, assisting you in providing an alibi or providing you a
venue to conduct it.
- Dared by fiends
you go drinking at the pub / karaoke with.
- Friends whose girlfriends are hostesses
from pubs and see in you a "big fish" (financially well off)
for their own girlfriends.
- Bride from your supplier in the form of
free usage of hotel room and call girls to get you to favour the
supplier into getting a contract job in your company.
- Being "entertained" by an agent your
company engaged in handling business overseas.
- You told your drinking pals that you
have a fall out with your girlfriend and they started encouraging you
to go out with another to show her that you are still a pick, ie, make
her jealous and she will come running back to you.
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You may think that
you can get yourself out of the affair or one night stand when you have
shown your manhood or have enough of kick / game. Here are some true
stories to stop you from even considering starting one.
- Your affair partner may deliberately get
herself pregnant. She will either damage your condom or grip you
around the waist with her legs during sex so that you will not be able
to withdraw during ejaculation.
- She may disrupt your life by making
nuisance call to your home
- She may deliberately inform your wife
about the affair in the hope that your wife will leave you.
- Out of jealousy, when the affair partner
feels less loved, she may try to harm your wife and children. It
can be done by overtaking or driving recklessly close to your wife's
car if she catches her on the road. In Singapore, a child
was killed when she was thrown down a flat by the affair partner when
the father of the child decided to end the affair.
- You may develop affection for the affair partner
and find that you are not able to leave her.
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Do you know what it
feels like for your spouse to even think that you maybe having an
affair?
The signs of depression:
- loss of interest or pleasure in
activities that were once enjoyed
- significant change in appetite or body
weight
- difficulty sleeping or oversleeping
- physical slowing or agitation
- loss of energy
- feelings of worthlessness
- difficulty thinking or concentrating
thus disrupting work, school, family, and social life
And do you know why you need to take note
of this? Because soon, she will have recurrent thoughts of death or
suicide. Do you want her to reach her threshold of no return?
Have you not read news of people who are so depressed that they
would even consider killing their children before committing suicide?
For those who realised that they are wrong and return to their family, you
must realise that life will no longer be the same. These are the
problems they will face:
- Your spouse and family members may no
longer respect you.
- Your spouse will always have doubts of
you.
- Your spouse may no longer love you and
only take you back for the sake of the children.
- Your children will no
longer heed your advice especially in matters related to family
upbringing.
- Your wife may decide to take you back
only on her terms, eg, if you agree to hand over all your pay check.
- You may feel shame and embarrassment as
you assume neighbours and family members are talking about your deed
even when they are not.
- Your previously frugal wife has decided
to become a fashion icon because you were willing to spend your money
on "another" anyway.
- Your spouse may be so traumatized by the
affair that she may lost her mind or have an affair herself out of
revenge or seek comfort through substance abuse.
- According to the law of karma, if you hurt
others it will only bring suffering to yourself. Imagine your
daughter having to go through what you are putting your spouse
through. Can you take that?
Marriage
is like a joint venture business and if it ends in a divorce, it is a
business failure that will lead to financial losses.
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