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Single Hood -
It is Everybody’s Problem |
Anyone in a relationship is vulnerable of becoming single again.
It could be through a failed relationship, through the death of a
spouse or through the breakdown of marriage. Whatever
the cause for single hood maybe, it will create it’s own set of negative
emotions.
Isn't
being prepared part of living? We prepare ourselves for school, for
our career, for our marriage, for starting a family.
We even take up a religion to prepare ourselves for life after
death.
So, my point of view is, why wait till someone become single again before
we do something about this inevitable state of bad emotions.
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My
Lethal Weapon |
I almost killed my
husband and I could have got away with murder, as no one will ever be able
to discover the murder weapon, that is, my negative emotions.
My transition from career woman to housewife has left a void in my
life and without realising it; I have relied on my husband to fulfill my
unrealistic needs for security and reassurances of his love for me.
I put him through so much stress that his immune system, already
overwhelmed with stress from work, succumbed to my emotional pressure and
he became very ill. Only then,
did it dawn on me that, had he not fallen ill, I could have pushed him to
find comfort in the arm of another woman. |
Taking
responsibility for your feelings.
Teaching The Children About Negative
Emotions
It's
a game!!! |
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Sharing of Experiences |
My father passed away recently
and even though my mother has the love and support of six adult children,
she grieves and wallows in her negative emotions and is at a loss as to how
she should lead the rest of her life without my father.
I could have become a widow too if my husband’s illness was not
arrested on time, so, would I be able to cope with two young kids to
fend? |
Learn To Cross
Before
Reaching That Bridge |
I hope that in sharing my story,
you too will realized, the importance of being prepared and of adopting
the right attitude towards building up a strong and healthy relationship. With a good foundation we
will be able to maintain the right family values and keep
the tradition of marriage well and alive.
I hope that what you learn here will inspire you to work with me in
doing something meaningful in life. Let
us start by playing the “If” game.
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Playing The "If"
Game
Let's
SOYO,
ie,
Stand
on Your Own, Together.
Be Inspired.
If
my spouse has an affair, what can I do about it?
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