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LEARNING TO RIDE A BICYCLE AGAIN

As a child, when we first learn to ride a bicycle, we fell many times and hurt ourselves in the process before we finally learn how to balance ourselves correctly to ride.  

In taking steps to learn, we are bound to make mistakes and fail sometimes.  It is this fear of failure that stop some of us from venturing out to learn new ideas or take up new opportunities.  
Let us remind ourselves to learn as a child again and understand that we must keep changing our actions until we attain the results we desire.  Taking action is a risk that all of us must take in order to succeed.  So, let us keep trying and trying, like a child learning to ride, till we succeed.

As a smart teacher said, "There are really no mistakes in life - there are only lessons".  As Henry Ford said, "Failure is the opportunity to begin again, more intelligently". 
THINKING POSITIVELY

Tell yourself every morning that, "Today is the first day of the rest of my life".  Welcome the new day by starting it with a clean slat.  Make plans to live every moment of your day to pursue your own personal excellence by filling it with:

1)    fresh opportunities
2)    new choices
3)    new goals


WHAT ARE THE THINGS YOU DO BEST?  

List out your accomplishments and see if you can improve and make them work for you.  Create opportunities from your accomplishments.

File all the negative thoughts that your have about yourself under "FEAR, UNDER ESTIMATION AND FALSE ASSUMPTIONS" and delete them as you learn to overcome these fears and build up your self-esteem through reading or attending motivational talks.  
NEW CHOICES

Live your life to the fullest by rebuilding your enthusiasm for life with BIG DREAMS.  Visualize the lifestyle you want to attain by starting your "Dream Works" Chart.  Fill it with pictures of the kind of home you want to live in, the kind of car you want to drive, the kind of holiday you want to enjoy with your family.  

Make plans, set specific goals and follow them through to attain your dreams.  Do not let your "Fear, Underestimation and False Assumptions" stop you from having big dreams.  

Instead of saying you do not have the time, the money, the chance, or you are just  too old to start, say positive things to attain your hopes and dreams.  Say, "I will find the time", "I will assess my strengths, my skills, my creativity and my talents to see where I might be able to make extra money or find an opportunity to make the kind of money for the kind of lifestyle that I want for my family". 

Say, "Everyday in every way, I am getting better and better."  

GETTING THERE

It is the weekend again and you are able to fill up the day with great activities for yourself and your family because you have planned ahead:

1)    how you want to spend it
2)    where you want to spend it
3)    how much time you want to spend on it

Planning the day is something that you do naturally and if you apply it to planning how to attain your goals within a specific period of time and follow it through, you will get there. 

 

Thank you Kraal for sharing. You cannot TRIUMPH if you do not TRY with an "UMPH"

                 


Nancy Shares

greenbeings@mail2malaysia.com
a Chinese saying:

"When someone shares with you something of value and you derive benefit from it, 
you have the obligation to share it with others".
 


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