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WHAT
IS FORGIVING
ABOUT? |
Your Emotional
Blocks
Do you constantly bring up old wounds when you have a conflict with your
loved ones? Do you realise that this is a clear sign that you have not
learnt to forgive? In doing this, you are letting your bitterness and all
the negative emotions that come with it overcome you and this will affect
your life and the people who care about you. |
All of us are vulnerable to faults, foibles and failures. Many broken
relationships could be restored and healed if people would admit their
mistakes and ask for forgiveness. Are
you ready to forgive?
What Makes Life 100% |
The Vicious
Circle
Negative emotions create negative attitudes and behaviours that in turn
caused people you are involved with harbour their own sets of negative
emotions. Learn to stop
twirling in this vicious circle and become tangled in the vortex of
harmful repercussions on the state of your health and well being.
Start by taking responsibility for your feelings. |
What you give is what you get.
The Echo of Life
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Revitalise Your
Life
Discover how you can
re-direct the energy you have been expending on feeling angry or sorry for
yourself. Once you are able to stop dwelling on your negative emotions,
you will be able to forgive and mend broken
relationship or move
forward to a new
beginning. |
Forgiveness is a
rebirth of hope, a reorganization of thought, and a reconstruction of
dreams. Once forgiving begins, dreams can be rebuilt. When forgiving is
complete, meaning has been extracted from the worst of experiences and
used to create a new set of moral rules and a new interpretation of life's
events. - Beverly
Flanigan author of Forgiving the Unforgivable |
Learning
to Forgive
To forgive someone means that you truly make peace with the
offender for what he / she has done to hurt you and you will bury the
hatchet, which means that you will not ever bring the matter up again.
In disagreements with
loved ones, deal only with the current situation and do not bring up the
past. |
People will forget what you said
People will forget what you did
But people will never forget how you made them feel |
Learning
From Your Past
Forgiveness does not mean that you approve or condone the actions
that have made your life miserable. Learn
from your experience to be better prepared to prevent the same thing from
happening again to you or people you care for.
The best classroom is at the feet of someone who have been through
experiences that have made profound changes in their lives.
You have been through some, so, let us share our lessons and start
inspiring. |
When you enter someone's life, whether by plan, chance or coincidence,
consider what your lesson will be. Will you teach love or a harsh lesson
of reality? When you die will your life have resulted in more loving
or hurting? More comfort or pain? More joy or sadness? |
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