Reaching That Roadblock Again

Time For Change

What do you do when you reach a blocked road?  Do you persistently try to go through it, especially, when you do not know what is at the other end of the road?  Naturally, you would find and take an alternative route to get to your destination, right?

But that is not what we do when we actually face roadblocks in our life.  We persistently try to clear that roadblock "our way" to get to the other side without even considering the time we have lost and will continue to loose in the pursuit.  

How much time do we have in our lifetime?

Choosing An Alternative Route

What we should do is find that alternative route.  Choose the most interesting one, one that we have never tried so that we can appreciate the new scenery and feel refreshed.  

Show Interest In Others

Take time to meet new people along the route.  Take time to listen about their roadblocks.  Help them find alternative routes through our experiences.  Give them a ride to get to their destinations if we can.

Be A Person Who Is Appreciated

The point is, you have been stuck at some roadblocks before, so, you should know how it felt to be in a limbo when you could not figure out how to get through.  How will you feel when you are able to work on helping other people clear their roadblocks?  Can you imagine how grateful they will be for your help?  Recall how it felt when someone has helped you and work on giving others that very feeling.

Creating a Rainbow

"Being appreciated" is the most uplifting feeling anyone can give you.  It is so motivating that it will bring out the best of your creative juices to work better at helping others.  And do you know what?  Once you have cleared their blocks, you will notice that yours have been cleared too.  In working together to clear roadblocks, you have created a rainbow of myriad of solutions, to cross over even the "mother of all roadblocks". 

So What Is Stopping You?
Is this what you are saying?

Your Belief System
Self Created Roadblocks

"I cannot help others when I am in need of help myself" 

Concentration On Self:

• Self pity - help me first.
• It will not benefit me.
• I have no time.
• I am not clever enough to do that.
• I have no confidence.
• I have no money.
• Unwillingness to share, as you are worried that others will benefit through you.

"I don't believe it will work".

Being Sceptic

• Stopping others less assertive than you from helping you with outspoken doubts.
• Believing that others could not possible help you when they have "less than what you are / have" factors, such as if they are younger or less educated or not as successful as you are.
• Always thinking others has ulterior motives in helping you.  Is it because that is what you practice?

Yes, it is time for change.

Open your mind to accept information and help from all resources.    

  The Righteous Man

A very righteous man went to heaven and complained to God that he had been pious and prayed daily but he did not attain the enlightenment he seek.

God replied, "I sent you many sinners but you turned them away.  If you have taken time to teach them to repent, you would be enlightened".

A GreenBeing's Perspective
learned from a Chauffer

For every skills, ability and knowledge you have gained, there may be an aspect in life that you have not been enlightened on.  For every disability I am not able to overcome, there may be a touch of awareness I have attained, while you are still seeking....  

In Giving, You Will Receive